The 1st of June I started a blog about all the projects we have been doing around here but, we got a phone call that Mike's Dad Larry, was in the hospital. This wasn't really anything to worry about because now and then he would go to the hospital for various things. The next morning we headed over to Cedar Rapids to visit him. We were worried once when we got to the hospital. When Janelle asked several doctors if she needed to call her son in Japan to get on a plane, they all said no, Larry was not dying.
Larry went to the hospital late Friday evening and passed away early Tuesday morning. Even though the doctors thought he would be okay, it was his time to go.
Everything happened so fast. Mike's brother Devin and his family were able to get from Japan to Iowa the next Saturday. Molly and Maggie were able to come. The visitation was Sunday afternoon and the memorial service and burial were on Monday. One thing about funerals, we get to hang out with family we don't usually get to hang out with. We met a family member we didn't even know existed!
Here is Larry enjoying a ride in his Mach 1.
Larry was cremated so the burial was very interesting to me. Larry took his last ride in the Mach 1 on the way to the cemetery. This car was Mike's when he was in High School. He sold it and eventually Larry bought it back and fixed it up with Mike's brother Devin. Larry is on Mike's lap in the below photo.
The day after the funeral, we grieved the only way we knew Larry would want us to. I was taking care of the neighbor's pool and the weather had been so terribly cold for swimming. This was the only day where it was a perfect day for the pool.
I have to tell this little story. During the visitation we found out there was a huge storm coming. Soon after the visitation, the girls and I jumped in the car to try to get home to Davenport before the storm hit. It turns out we were actually following the storm and I had several chances to take a different highway to avoid it. When I got to a highway where I could turn, I asked the girls which way should I go, turn right into the sunshine, or go straight into a storm where we could all tell there was hardly any visibility. They both mentioned it looked pretty scary ahead. I decided to go straight into the storm. Driving through the pounding rain was pretty intense and when I had a slight feeling of fear, I pulled off in a small town to hang out under a gas station awning. We waited until the storm went further ahead of us. Once I felt okay about driving again, I continued straight but then had a chance to turn again. This time I did turn into the sunshine.
Soon we saw the most brilliant, full rainbow very close to us. I wish I could describe it in a way you would understand the fullness and the beauty of it. At the bottom of the rainbow, you could tell it was in front of the trees off in the distance. The trees were all different colors. We had never seen anything like it before and it was hard for me to keep my eyes on the road. Maggie in the back seat then mentioned the Walmart we were approaching was the smallest one she had ever seen. Then we all saw it. That full vibrant rainbow was perfectly straddling the Walmart and we all knew it was Larry. You see, Larry always used to give me hard time because I would never shop at Walmart and this was his favorite place to shop. He tried to convince me and then it became a joke. He even sent to following photo to me, showing he was shopping at one during one of their vacations.
I had to get a picture of the rainbow Walmart so I turned around but within 30 seconds and by the time I was in position to grab my camera, the rainbow was gone. Larry had played another Walmart joke on us.
We will miss you Grandpa Larry!!
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